Connecting Safely
Your safety is our top priority. Learn essential tips and guidelines for safe and respectful online connecting experiences.
How To Connect Safely and Respectfully
Our dedicated approach to your safety - we are committed to keeping our online community safe and believe it is our social responsibility to be leaders in safety and security in online connecting.
Online Safety Guidelines
Protect Your Personal Information
Never share sensitive personal information such as your home address, phone number, financial details, or social security number with people you've only met online.
Verify Identity
Be cautious of people who refuse to video chat or meet in person. Use Rosecoco's verification features to confirm authenticity.
Meet in Public Places
For first meetings, always choose public locations with good lighting and other people around. Inform a friend of your plans.
Stay Within the Platform
Keep communications on Rosecoco until you've built trust. Be wary of attempts to move conversations to external platforms.
Red Flags to Watch For
Warning Signs
- Requests for money or financial assistance
- Stories about emergencies requiring immediate funds
- Refusal to video chat or speak on the phone
- Inconsistent or vague personal information
- Pressure to move conversations off the platform
- Requests for personal identifying information
- Claims of being in the military, working overseas, or traveling
- Professional photos that seem too polished
Meeting Someone for the First Time
Safety Checklist
- Meet in a public place with plenty of people
- Tell a friend or family member where you're going
- Arrange your own transportation
- Keep your phone charged and accessible
- Trust your instincts - if something feels off, leave
- Limit alcohol consumption
- Have a code word with friends for emergencies
- Consider a video call before meeting in person
Report a User
If someone is acting inappropriately or making you feel unsafe, report them immediately.
Comprehensive Safety Information
Online Safety Guidelines
Protecting yourself while building connections online is crucial. Follow these essential guidelines:
What to Share
- General interests and hobbies
- Non-specific location (city, not neighborhood)
- Professional background (without company details)
- Educational history
- Personal values and goals
What NOT to Share
- Full name and address
- Phone numbers or social media handles
- Financial information
- Daily routine specifics
- Information about family members
Critical Warning
Never send money or financial information to anyone you've only met online, regardless of their story or requests. This is the most common form of connecting scams.
Safe Meeting Practices
When deciding to meet someone in person, prioritize your safety with these guidelines:
Before Meeting
- Video chat to verify identity
- Research basic information about them
- Share details with a trusted friend
- Plan your transportation independently
- Choose a familiar public location
- Set a time limit for the first meeting
During the Meeting
- Stay in public areas
- Keep your belongings secure
- Trust your instincts
- Maintain awareness of surroundings
- Don't leave drinks unattended
- Have an exit strategy ready
Meeting Timeline
Start with short meetings (30-60 minutes) in very public places. Gradually extend meeting times and locations as trust builds over multiple encounters.
Sexual Health & Consent
Talking About Sexual Health
Open communication about sexual health is essential. Consider discussing:
- Birth control methods
- STD testing history and frequency
- Current sexual health status
- Any concerns or preferences
- Regular testing schedules
Understanding Consent
Consent is FREIES - an acronym for healthy sexual boundaries:
Freely given
Consenting is a choice without pressure or influence.
Reversible
Anyone can change their mind at any time.
Informed
Full knowledge about what's being agreed to.
Enthusiastic
Active and eager participation, not just agreement.
Specific
Consent to one activity doesn't mean consent to all activities.
Remember
You have the right to say no to any sexual activity at any time, for any reason. Your boundaries are valid and must be respected.
Reporting Inappropriate Behavior
We take reports seriously and act quickly to ensure community safety.
What to Report
- Requests for money or financial assistance
- Inappropriate or offensive messages
- Suspicious or fake profiles
- Harassment or threatening behavior
- Attempts to move conversations off-platform
- Age misrepresentation
- Any activity that makes you feel unsafe
How to Report
Use the report button on any profile or message, or contact our safety team directly. All reports are reviewed within 24 hours.
Our Commitment
We review every report thoroughly, take appropriate action, and work with law enforcement when necessary. Your safety is our priority.